Okay this story happened to me a few months ago and I'll be first to admit I was completely stupid in doing this. So I joined a dating website and was talking to a couple people but not in the way of making plans just getting to know them with general questions, one guy I was messaging (yeah guy, I date guys and girls and it was a dating site just for guys to throw it out there).
decided to give my number to (first stupid thing I did) and we were just
messaging. He talked about meeting up but didn't indicate any time
frame, so I assumed he met meet up generally sometime. I said sure.
wanted my address (but I wasnt that stupid, I gave him address to a
store across town). I wanted to get a shower and get ready for work.
When I got out of my shower I had three missed calls from his number,
and while my phone was in my hand he started calling again.
and he was freaking about me not answering, and said he's on his way to
the address, I was confused and said I'm not meeting with you now we
didn't make plans for today I meant for another time. He then went livid
and started calling me a tease and telling me I would be sorry.
get very sarcastic, so I told him to take a chill pill and unclench his
cheeks, when he still was freaking out calling me *beep* and *beep*. I
was like cool with me and blocked his number. Then I started getting
texts and calls from another number, answered that and it was him again
(I started recording the conversation) and he said I won't be as mouthy
when we meet up.
I laughed and said well we wont cause that's not my
address. He freaked out some more and said he wants to meet up with me
for just 2 minutes. and continued to beg for just two minutes (alarms
went off what takes two minutes to do? kill someone). I said hell no and
blocked the number.
Then a third time he texted and called with a
different number (mind you all of this is within the span of an hour). I
was thinking what the hell is this guy contacting me with. I finally
went to the police who told me to change my number and if he still
continues to contact me keep it logged like I was doing.
After I changed
my number I didn't hear from him again. But about a week ago I read a
report online of a gay guy who lived near me who was brutally beaten and
killed going to meet up with a guy he met on the same dating website. I
know gay bashing is real and exists and still freaks me out to think If
I actually met up with this guy he could've been the same one who
killed the guy in the news (who hasn't been found).